How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Have you ever had sex with your husband's friend in front of your husband? Please tell about it and elaborate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What is the meaning behind people claiming to hear voices of God in their heads without anyone else hearing them? Is this a sign of mental illness or possession by an evil spirit?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

That's it for today.

Can you summarize season 1 of "The Acolyte"?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do you think your landlord should have a key to your room?

Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I took a video of my serve (60 FPS) and it took 0.4 seconds from my racket to the service line. How fast would you say my serve was?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

Could some kind lady post me a photo of her hairy spread pussy? It has become extremely difficult to find new amateur photos and I would be infinitely grateful.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Does not procrastinate.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

Procrastinates a lot.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do you regret being married to your current wife?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What is the difference between heaven and heavens?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What are some common historical misconceptions?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why are details for questions here on Quora so limited? I have an account here on Quora and Yahoo Answers. I like discussing different subjects.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.